How Your Love Patterns Affect Your Sex Life

Love Patterns Interview with Sandy Kaufmann

Do you find yourself repeating the same scenarios in your relationships? Do you have the same sexual problems with all of your partners? This could mean your love patterns are messing with your love and sex life. But there is a way out. Watch the interview I conducted with Sandy Kaufmann, Zurich-based love coach. In her work Sandy helps women … Read More

Lost Your Libido In the Pandemic? Here’s How To Get It Back

There’s one thing nobody is taking about when discussing 2020. That crazy year was a desire killer. If you lost your libido in the past few months, you are not alone. Many couples have stopped making love altogether. As we enter 2021, COVID vaccine in sight, it’s a good time to think about your intimate life. The longer you stay … Read More

What Your Friend Is Not Telling You About Her Problems With Orgasm

what your friend is not telling about orgasms

Remember that scene from the HBO series “Sex and the City”? The one where Samantha lost her orgasm? She shares the news with her friends, hoping for some advice. “Let’s retrace your steps”, says Carrie. “Were you on top?”. The girls exchange more intimate details but find no logical explanation to Samantha’s problems with orgasm. Can you imagine having this … Read More

Pregnancy, Morning Sickness and Sex – an impossible combination?

morning sickness pregnancy

There’s nothing less romantic than getting sick in the middle of sex, right? And yet this is the reality of most pregnant women, especially in the first trimester. Is it possible to have a satisfying sex life when suffering from morning sickness? What’s causing morning sickness in pregnancy According to the American Pregnancy Association 50% of women suffer from morning … Read More

No Sex Drive During Pregnancy

no sex drive in pregnancy

Many women are surprised to have no sex drive during pregnancy. Why do some women have a sudden drop in libido and how to manage?

How I got pregnant in my 30s in two months

how I got pregnant in my 30s

Today I’m sharing a piece of personal history of how I got pregnant in my 30s using fertility awareness. I want to explain why I’m so excited about cycle charting. Cycle app tracking are the thing nowadays but my own fascination started many years ago. By the way, I think I should call myself a trendsetter by now. So many … Read More

Take care of yourself, mommy! Self-care for moms

Self-care for moms

I didn’t do much work last evening. Or the evening before. I fell asleep. It happens so often whenever it’s my turn to get our son to bed. He’s a toddler so it takes about an hour for him to settle down and get sleepy. I feel so connected to him even on a physical level that we usually fall … Read More

Spice up your sex life. No tools required.

spice up your sex life

Spice up your sex life with a plastic Willy! Seriously? Willy shot glasses. Willy head boppers. Yes, you heard me right. You put a hairband on your head and it’s got penises on a jumpy coil that looks like antennae of a funny bee. This is the version of sexual variety sold to brides-to-be by sex toy stores. Plastic genitalia … Read More

Enjoy sex in pregnancy until childbirth!

sex in pregnancy

Sex in pregnancy? Yes please! Has your OB-GYN ever talked to you about sex during your prenatal checkups? I asked this question in my Facebook group and several women said that the topic was never discussed. I think this non-representative example is a good indication of what’s going on in gynaecologists’ offices around the world. If sex is mentioned, it … Read More

Sex is easy. Don’t make it complicated.

sex in romantic comedies

When was the last time you saw a romantic film which told a story of two people meeting, falling in love and being happy? Just like that. There’s always got to be a complication. Take one of my favourite romantic comedies which didn’t get the popularity it deserved, “Only You”. The characters played by Marisa Tomei and Robert Downey Jr … Read More